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My husband and I began the annual task of cleaning out our garage.  Despite our best efforts to minimize our accumulated possessions, we faced, yet again, stacks of used baby paraphernalia (purchased for grandchildren’s visits), old clothing, books and boxes filled with odd collections of items transferred from household shelves to the garage.  I have [...]

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It’s been a week of firsts:  my granddaughter’s first visit to California, her first encounter with a dog, first taste of solid food, and first sunset over the Pacific Ocean.  Yesterday we celebrated her first Christmas, although at only six months of age, it’s unlikely she’ll have any memories of the day, but we–her parents [...]

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We put up our Christmas tree last night, waiting until our five month old granddaughter, Flora, arrived with her parents so that they could share in our annual holiday tradition.  Long after everyone went to bed, I sat alone in the dark, staring at the colored lights and remembering dozens of Christmases past.  Finally, exhausted [...]

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I live in a place where the advent of winter is less noticeable than in other places I used to call “home.”  The succulents that dot the slopes of our property, the silk oak and palm tree standing in our backyard, are green and unchanged in this winter season.  There are buds on my bird [...]

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My parents died several years ago, and in the aftermath of their loss,  the dynamics between the siblings in my family were turbulent and hurtful.  Grief, which all of us experience, is complex.  It sometimes emerges as anger or resentment directed at others, and in the death of a parent, with one family member striking [...]

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This past week, I’ve been enjoying the company of my daughter and her family, exploring the island of Okinawa, where they now make their home.  So much is new and unfamiliar, and I marvel as my daughter, mother of a two small children, navigates about the island, eagerly embracing its culture, language and cuisine.  Yet [...]

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Daylight saving time ended last Saturday night, but for the entire week, I’ve been  consumed with time, anticipating the fifteen hour difference between San Diego and Okinawa, where I’m headed for a visit with my daughter and her family.  My husband, a seasoned global traveler, offered his advice for easing jet lag. “Just get up [...]

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Even in the cave of the night when you wake… you push with your eyes till forever comes in its twisted figure eight and lies down in your head… ( “Waking at 3 a.m.,” by William Stafford, in Waking at 3 a.m., 1972) We’ve all had them, those sleepless nights when our fears and worries [...]

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i was leaving my fifty-eighth year when a thumb of ice stamped itself hard near my heart you have your own story you know about the fears the tears the scar of disbelief … (“1994,” by Lucille Clifton) There’s a scar on my head, behind my hairline, that runs from one ear to the other.  [...]

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We rose at dawn yesterday to begin the trip home from Toronto, where we’ve been visiting our newest granddaughter and her parents for the past two and a half weeks.  We’re seasoned travelers, and we arrived at the airport, as advised, two hours ahead of departure to check our bags and clear U.S. Customs.  It [...]

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